High School 101: What to Expect in High School
- Bonnie Kleffman, M.Ed., GCDF

- 6 hours ago
- 5 min read

The transition from middle school to high school tends to be the subject of humor in books and movies. Picture awkward, lanky teenagers, stacks of books in hand, being bumped into on purpose by cool senior jocks wearing letterman jackets. Whatever this transition conjures in your mind there are a few truths that only those who have observed it from the inside can impart. As a former 9th grade English teacher, I have seen the evolution of my own classroom of freshmen from wide-eyed middle schoolers to confident high school students in the matter of just a few months.
From a college planning perspective, however, there are several things that students and parents should keep in mind when planning for high school. Social, emotional, (and hormonal) issues aside, there are a few guiding principles that we should remember when setting our students up for success in high school and beyond. If you are a rising 9th grade student or parent, please keep these things in mind for the exciting year(s) ahead.
Your Transcript Starts Now
Rising 9th graders, you have a beautiful opportunity before you - a transcript that is a blank slate. Yes you may have taken a few high-school credits in middle school, but for the most part, your transcript has yet to be written. I can’t say this emphatically enough, but the grades you earn in high school are a key ‘door opener’ to college, and the higher the grades, the more doors will open.
That said, colleges like to see an upward trajectory of grades and rigor, so if, in your first semester, you struggle in a class or two, that’s part of it. I implore you to use the resources at your disposal: teacher office hours, tutoring, study groups, etc. Get the best grades you can and take ownership of your academic journey. Mom and Dad, resist the urge to rush in at every small struggle. Encourage your student to self-advocate and be the one who asks for help. Students should address academic challenges while they are small challenges and not big ones. Do not wait. Be proactive. Your 12th grade self will thank you.
Take the time during 9th grade to construct a tentative academic plan with your school counselor. Include up-leveling academic rigor each year. Students should take the highest level course (honors, AP, IB) that they are able to succeed in, and success is not always without struggle! This academic trajectory can absolutely be modified later, but it is important to plan ahead so that prerequisite courses can be included in grades 9 and 10.
Focus on Growth, Not Perfection
The first year of high school is about getting involved and exploring new extracurricular activities. My advice is to continue those you loved in middle school and try a few new things to see what fits. Colleges want to see students who are involved in their communities and schools in ways that are meaningful to them. Nobody expects 13/14year-old students to know all of the things they are passionate about, but they will notice ambition and curiosity in exploring things. When it comes to school clubs and extracurriculars, 9th grade is the time to try all the things!
This is a year of broadening, unlike the more focused 11th and 12th grade years when seeking leadership and deepening involvement in activities is expected. Not sure what that club is really about? Try it! Curious about joining the track team? Go for it! There will be time for more specialization later. Most schools have some sort of ‘club rush’ or equivalent event at the beginning of the school year to introduce students to available opportunities. Be brave and join in - you will probably be glad you did!

Cultivate Organization Skills
If you were that middle-schooler who ended the year with random papers spilling out of every folder, or if missed assignments were the norm in your world - now is the time to reset! Ask for help if you need it. A new school year is the perfect time to refresh your calendar, start an assignment log, and create a routine that supports keeping things organized. For some, this can take the form of a Google calendar or online tools, for others, planning journals or whiteboard calendars. While I cannot tell you what will work best, I can tell you that you need to take the time to plan your organizational strategy before you begin the new school year.
Students, it is not your parent’s responsibility to keep up with your schoolwork. It’s yours. This is not only a college readiness skill, but a life skill. Take it seriously. If this is something you struggle with, by all means ask for help! But ultimately, this is now your responsibility. Act accordingly.
Balance is Key
Along the lines of taking responsibility for your grades and assignments, it is also your responsibility to manage time so that you sleep well, eat well and study well. This, too, is an organizational skill. Often the difference between an A student and a B student is 30 minutes of sleep, so try to minimize distractions during study time in order to maximize efficiency. Parents, you can help by providing a quiet study space for your student, and helping them manage time effectively so that they have time for academics, extracurriculars and socializing. Many older students have left college for lack of these skills, so cultivate them now to ensure success in college and beyond!
The beginning of high school is often met with mixed emotions from both parents and students. As someone who has personally witnessed the transformation of many, I encourage you to embrace the change with your whole heart and be excited about the growth that awaits!
If you would like help to navigate the college planning side of transitioning from middle to high school, from course planning to extracurricular activities advice, book your DISCOVERY CALL today to learn more!
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Why are 9th-grade grades important?
Grades earned in 9th grade are key "door openers" for college admissions, as your high school transcript begins now. Higher grades generally lead to more college opportunities.
What should I do if I struggle in a class during my first semester?
Utilize available resources immediately, such as teacher office hours, tutoring, and study groups. Address academic challenges while they are small and be proactive in seeking help.
How should I approach my academic planning?
Work with your school counselor to create a tentative academic plan that includes increasing academic rigor each year. Take the highest-level courses (Honors, AP, IB) in which you can succeed.
What is the goal of extracurricular activities in 9th grade?
The 9th grade is a year of broadening and exploration. The goal is to try many different activities to see what fits and to demonstrate ambition and curiosity to colleges.
How can I improve my organization skills for high school?
Reset your habits by using tools like Google calendars, planning journals, or assignment logs. It is the student's responsibility to manage their own schoolwork and stay organized.
Why is balancing time and wellness important in high school?
Proper time management ensures you have enough time for sleep, nutrition, and studying. Developing these skills now prevents future struggles in college and supports overall academic success.


